Introducing the ‘Tool Kit’ of Must Haves for The Christian Wife. Your Tool Kit is loaded with tips, tools, information, and resources to help bring sexy and excitement back to your marriage!
Even before your man comes along to add to your life there are values every woman should own and below I have listed 7 of them to keep in your Tool Kit. You must strive to either come into your marriage packing these values or create these values in the midst of your marriage. Either way wholeness is the key to happiness. Invest in yourself first!
7 Values Every Woman Should Own
Be Attractive inside and out-Being attractive is not only about how you dress, make your face up, comb your hair, clean yourself, how you smell, but it’s also about how you “look” on the inside. Remember, what is on the inside will manifest itself on the outside. Inner traits like love, respect, value, and care.
Have standards-Don’t just date or marry anybody. Take time to figure out what type of person you want, what values matter to you, how stable he is, how he handles himself in a crisis. And most of all be the type of person you want to attract.
Have goals-Goals are things you want to accomplish in life whether it be a higher learning degree, a certain type of job, marriage, children, owning your own business, etc. Spend some time thinking about what will make your life better and what will take you to the next level.
Establish healthy boundaries-Many people had the hardest time with this because it takes courage to tell someone not to disrespect what is important to you. It takes practice to be able to teach people how to treat you.
Learn to communicate-It’s not always what you say but how you say it. Many men complain that women talk to them like they talk to their children and its extremely disrespectful to them. Learn how to speak with respect and love and by all means watch your tone!
Learn to be a partner-If you see your husband struggling with something and you’re better at it, offer to help him out with it. For example, finances. If you pay your bills on time and he’s always late with his, show him you care about his success in all areas by being a true helpmate.
Learn to take care of your business-No man wants a woman he has to take care of. It puts a lot of salt in the relationship and stress on him especially if he has trouble living up to her unrealistic expectation that it’s his job. No it’s your job to take care of your own business and to take unnecessary pressure off of him. He’ll love you for it!
So, does God Even Care if You Enjoy Sex with Your Husband? Are you kidding me? Of course, He does! It’s His gift to marriage. Has anyone that’s ever given you a gift not wanted you to enjoy it? Have you ever given anyone a gift and not wanted them to enjoy it? You spend your time shopping for it or putting it together or designing it with care and love. Of course, you want the receiver to enjoy it. So why would you or anyone else think after God spent His time divinely designing something as wonderfully powerful and exquisitely pleasurable as His gift of sex to marriage, that He wouldn’t want you to enjoy it?
OK engage your logic and give that a little bit of thought… You’ve come to the right place, MavisMcKnight.com and we are on a “Mission Possible!“